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Vices: Relationship Glue
If you want your girlfriend to continue expending energy on you there is are a few courses of action. However the most potent of them is the cultivation of vices. Many will tell you that girls do not want a womanizing, boozing, and cigar smoking bastion of masculinity in their lives who eats steaks while she regales her figure with salad. These are either the boys that still believe that doing “favors” for a girl will have her respect him while she skips from one disinterested stud to another or they are the self-deluded spinsters that engross themselves in ten-cent romance novels or are angry that a man will not look at them. Meow.
Here is a secret to what a girl wants from her man.
A guy who is a finished product, but has something that she thinks she would like to change in him. However, she really doesn’t want to change him, she just enjoys the perception that she can make him better. Confusing.
Here’s another secret: girls are counterintuitive.
A girl wants a guy who has his mission determined. A guy who appears in her life gift-wrapped with an alpha-dog seal of approval. If you have been reading this blog then you already know what this looks like.
However a girl is never fully happy with something until she has added her pointless flair that serves no purpose beyond making her feel that she did contribute something. Vanity.
The same applies to boyfriends; she will attempt to add her touch until she enslaves you with the shackles of curbed individuality. A girl doesn’t want her man to concede to her whims. Allowing her to change you into what she believes she wants will only breed disgust, contempt, girl’s nights where she mocks you in front of her friends, and daydreams of foreign cycloptic pythons.
The easiest way to avoid this is never to have a relationship officially determined. Open-ended bliss. If you have determined monogamy the easiest way to avoid her goal of “customizing” you is to cultivate a vice.
A vice gives her something to focus her attention on. Vices tend to be frowned upon by the gatekeepers of propriety. In a society that continually attempts to move to the vanilla and sterilized showing your girl that you refuse to bend to the whims of the haters will enlighten her spirit and embolden her in the bedroom. Remember she doesn’t want to change you, just enjoys believing that she can “make you better.”
How to determine if something is a vice: if something is made illegal because of the “negative” impacts it may have on children, it is seen socially as a vice. This relates to smoking, boozing, womanizing, salting your food, and illegal cage fighting. Avoid the vanilla and sterile life.
I would like to make a point here that a vice is not an addiction. If you become an addict you have shown you lack the mental constitution to have a vice. With a vice you are toeing the line between enjoyment and succumbing to artificial stimulation. Remember what you learned watching mob movies: nothing ever ends well once you start doing coke. Also there is almost nothing more despicable than a degenerate gambler. Facts.
I personally am a fan of the triquetra: Gambling, Boozing, and Cigars. It inspires lesser men to join your ranks while giving your girlfriend enough things to complain with empty words. It is a safe entrance into the world of vices and if you just stick with these three there is nothing to be ashamed of. To imagine that back in the days of our grandfathers, the triquetra was part of the masculine definition. How have we as a nation become such pussies. Sigh.
However, do not limit yourself. It is important to remember that your vices will make her friends speak of you with the tones reserved for villains. This is good. Remember girls are counterintuitive. The more her friends remind her that you may be a bad influence the more attracted she will become to you.
Be creative in your vices.
My father cannot help himself and flirts in front of my mother. Her eyes shine with attraction.
A close friend of mine goes out into the night stumbling into his lover’s bed in the early morning. Her friends throw mean spirited comments at him while attempting to have her see the light. His relationship with her is stronger and more potent than any relationship of her friends.
Remember men have vices, girls have “guilty pleasures” such as chocolate or stuffing their mouths. Vices make men more attractive, guilty pleasures uncurbed will make girls visually unappealing.
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